Are all women able to have an orgasm? Is it simply a matter of sexual ability or performance that separates a woman who can climax easily…from one that can’t climax at all? And if so, does that make it MORE about the partner, than the actual “biology” of the woman involved? In this article we are going to take a quick and easily look at the truth about women and our ability to climax, without any of the hype, the myths or the outright LIES that many men’s magazines WANT you to believe! Curious to know more? Continue reading as we take a closer look below!

Filed Under: Can ALL women orgasm? (or is that simply wishful thinking?)

The truth? Not all women can experience climax, but more can than can not. As a matter of fact, some sexual surveys and scientific studies show that about 90% (or more) of the women in the world are in fact able to climax, and given the proper sexual stimulation, they WILL.

What about the 10% or so that can’t? Is that because they are “uptight” or is it because they have something wrong with them?

Good question! And while the word uptight probably isn’t a fair one, there are in fact many psychological drivers for sexual dysfunction in women, and being tense, or unable to relax is certainly amongst them. (which often IRONICALLY creates the REVERSE effect in men – e.g. – premature ejaculation!)

The good news?

Many women who have difficulty achieving orgasm ARE able to be “cured” with talk therapy. Others DO have some physical problems which prevent them from achieving climax, and that can be a more serious sexual dysfunction.

Filed Under: Don’t BELIEVE the Big LIE!

It’s no secret that many women fake orgasm, JUST to get sex over with. Some studies suggest that about 80% of women have done this at least once, and more than half have done it with their CURRENT partner. The lie is actually quite simple – and arguably, quite harmless as well: When asked if she’s “EVER” faked it, most women will tell their significant other they have…but NOT with them! (whereas statistically we know that isn’t true, and most women care more about the feelings of their man, and feel comfortable telling a small white lie to protect them)

The bottom line?

Great sex is equally as important to a woman, as it is to a man…and keeping HER satisfied in the sack will go a long way to keeping her happy everywhere else to boot!

Are you in a relationship where you really love each other but have stopped having sex? Guess what, you are not alone. Let’s look at the reasons behind reduced sexual activities and how to turn it around.

Loving relationships without sex

Working with couples I hear this statement often: We love each other but just don’t have any sex anymore. Often a relationship starts out with a healthy sex life, only to slowly reduce over the years. Some people might say that relationships do not survive without a sexual component. In the people I have worked with this is not the case and still, many of them realize that something is missing.

Intimacy and sex

First we have to clarify the relationship between intimacy and sex. Part of a couple’s intimate relating is not just the act of sex, there is much more to physical connection like kissing, cuddling, holding, having deep and meaningful conversation, being there for each other, physical closeness etc.

Many couples do share some form of intimacy, even though they might have no or little sexual intercourse. Or are you living together with your partner like a flat mate?

Reasons for low libido

There are many reasons for low libido and there are often psychological or physiological components:

* Stress
* Bereavement, depression and other medical conditions
* Medications
* A new baby or taking care of a big family
* Sociological influences creating limiting or conflicting beliefs about being sexual
* Hormones
* The quality of your relationship
* Changing life situations

This list is by no means complete. It just shows that loss or reduced libido is normal and more common than is spoken about.

How to turn things around?

First of all it is important to address any physical components like stress, medications, hormonal imbalances etc. and even though you might not be able to change them completely get them checked out and looked after.

In addition you need to look into those more psychological components that influence you, like your beliefs about sexuality, your feelings in relations to your partner and how safe you feel to let go.

One of the main contributing factors to low sexual activities in couples is that life takes over and we just don’t make the time and space for it. Just like your exercise routine: It does not just happen automatically. You plan for it, put time aside during your day’s activities, take your gym stuff with you and you might even follow a goal, for example ‘I go to the gym at least 3 times per week’.

Many couples still expect sexual intercourse to happen spontaneously and when they both feel like it. Do you always feel like going to the gym when you go? Probably not but you go anyway and feel good while doing it and especially afterwards. The same applies to your love life: you have to make the time, create the space, put yourself in the mood or take time to get there. Take it easy one day when you feel low in energy and enjoy the connection without necessarily having a specific outcome in mind, for example you do not need to always have an orgasm to be intimate with your partner.

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Nathalie Himmelrich is the founder of ‘Reach for the Sky Therapy’ on Sydney’s Northern Beaches and specialises in ‘relationship related issues’. She is working with individuals and couples using techniques ranging from Counselling, Neuro Linguistic Programming to Journey Therapy. She supports clients in their personal growth in a supportive and professional environment.

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Women are highly addicted to humor and sex. For women, sex and humor are both mentally and physically gratifying. They frequently seek out these two desirable qualities in their significant others. They know very well that a man with good sense of humor and great sex skills is not only as sharp as a tack but also exceptionally charming.

If your relationship is up in the air, and if you wish to bulletproof your marriage, take advantage of humor and sex.

1. How to Use Humor And Build Strong Bonds?

Brainless jokes can drop you in trouble. So think twice if you are not sure how to use humor. Learn to walk before you run. In my own experience, it takes effort to earn this high ranked quality.

how to use humor correctly?

“Humor requires looking at common things in unexpected ways,” says Don Nilsen, Ph.D., cofounder of the International Society for Humor Studies.

It’s all about observing the world in a witty way; it’s not about telling women brainless jokes. Look before you leap; the lengthy series of jokes don’t make you rich. Being a comedian isn’t the goal. Men who know how to make women laugh with humorous one-liners get along well with women. Use outstanding humorous one-liners in order to steal the show. Humorous one-liners impress well while the humorous flash exists.

If you want to know exactly that how to do the trick with humorous one-liners then watch “Friends TV series” again. It’s the best way to figure out how to make women laugh with humorous one-liners.

One key reason why she falls out of love is boredom. A woman plays the field when she feels more like a maid than a girlfriend/wife in her relationship. Humor is the only best thing which strengthens a couple’s bond. So, use it in order to make your woman fall head over heels in love with you. The more fun she has, the better for you.

2. What Do Women Suppose Is Good Sex?

Jennifer Lopez said: “All I can say is if they show my butt in a movie, it better be a wide shot.”

Good sex is all about making a woman feel entirely sexual. There are many sex reports that indicate that women are highly concern about their bodies. In other words, women love their bodies proudly. They hate men who don’t make them feel sexy. It’s because they always strive to assert their uniqueness through their outfits. A lot of women say they like men who give them sexy compliments during witty conversations. Sexy compliments not only trigger sexual feelings of them but also unlock their sexual passion.

Some men are just a little baffled when it comes to make a woman feel sexual during intimate moments. Hug her from back, lock lips with her, squeeze her arm during foreplay, get her to dance naked with you, tease her body playfully with feather, and tell her how great her body looks. Treat her like a sexual lady in order to raise her sexual arousal level.

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Couples are always looking for tips and advice when it comes to improving their sex life. For men, it is often about frequency and spontaneity. For women, it may be quality time spent prior to sex or it may have to do with fulfillment.

Here’s a quick tip on how to improve your sex life: Schedule It!

Sounds simple, right? There aren’t many couples who do this. Why not? It is easier to implement than you think.

So, try to schedule your sexual time. There have been a number of books, such as 365 Days, A Memoir Of Intimacy, and articles lately about couples who have reignited their sex lives by committing to having sex every day. They claim it has helped their relationships by improving not only their sex, but their communication and commitment. One woman, in article in the Times of London, said by scheduling daily sex, the couple had “screwed themselves together” again. I like that turn of phrase. Leave it to our friends the Brits!

Others are writing about scheduling sex less frequently, but scheduling it nevertheless. This is interesting because the schedule not only assures there will be sex, but relieves the pressure on the “off” days. They say this allows them to cuddle and be close without the pressure of wondering if this is going to lead to sexual requests.

I can’t tell you how many times in my work that one partner, usually the woman, says that cuddling, kissing and fondling are anxiety provoking because it “always” leads to sex and can “never” stop at just being close. Scheduling sex makes it clear that both partners soon will have their needs met without the awkward negotiating each time.

Scheduling also has the advantage of helping with our busy schedules, chronic exhaustion, and the distractions of everyday life.

The downside, according to many, is that spontaneity is lost. While that may be true regarding when sex occurs. I would suggest that the critical part of spontaneity is what we do sexually, not when.

No matter your reaction to this notion of scheduling your sexual time, discuss it with your partner and find out what the two of you want. Put your own spin on this and see what you can create that makes you both happy. After all, the most important part of the sexual relationship is your agreement about what you want as a couple.

Many people look at the price on a good quality women’s sex toy and their eyes widen and they say, “how much is that vibrator, you must be kidding?” Well, there are some products that you get what you pay for and this is one of those items. Many factors separate the high end and low end vibrators, the most important being; longevity, product materials, engineering and design, and eco friendliness. Let me elaborate.

Vibrator Longevity

Are you aware that many lower end women’s vibrators are designed to last only a few months? Yes, just a few months. So let’s look at this fact from a purely conservative monetary perspective. Say you purchase a vibrator for $30 and it lasts 6 months. That equates to $5 per month. Let’s even be super generous and say it lasts for a full year, 12 months. That gives us a figure of $2.50 a month. Then you need to buy a new vibrator.

Most higher end vibrators come with a full year guarantee, some with a 5 year, and many with an additional partial replacement guarantee for 5 -10 years. Yes, high quality vibrators are made to last a very long time. I personally have had some for over the 10 year mark and they are still going strong with regular use. Now let’s say you purchase one of these high quality vibrators for $100 and it lasts 5 years. That is 60 months or $1.67 per month.

As you can see, what looked at first glance to be an exorbitant price, $100 for a women’s vibrator, actually ended up being a much more economical option than the cheaper price tag vibrator. Here is the math comparison:

High Quality Vibrator initial cost: $100, 60 months use = $1.67 per month

Lower Quality Vibrator initial cost: $30, 6 months of use = $5.00 per month or

12 months of use = $2.50 per month

Product Materials

Most high end vibrators use body healthy materials with no phthalates or phthalate blends, such as 100% medical grade silicone, elastomers, or hard plastic. These materials are considered body safe because they are inert. They do not react with the body, nor do they leach out of the products into the body.

Most low end vibrators use some form of phthalates because they are a much cheaper material, either in a polyvinyl chloride, jelly, or silicone blend. Unfortunately, these phthalates (chemical plasticizers) are strongly suspected of having major adverse effects on humans and their offspring and they are easily leached out of products and absorbed through the skin and mucous membranes. Phthalates are being phased out of many products all over the world due to these health concerns. The sex toy industry, not being one directly regulated, is left to its own conscious as to the product materials they use.

Considering your health and the health of your children, the materials used should be a major factor when shopping for a vibrator. Look for the products that clearly state the materials used so you can make and informed decision.

Engineering / Design

A good quality vibrator is engineered to last as we discussed earlier in this article. But, it is also designed to be user friendly and ergonomically appropriate. No one wants to use a vibrator that you need to study a manual to operate. Nor one where the controls are hard to reach.

Likewise, a good vibrator should have a physical design appropriate for its intended use. Seems logical, but you might be surprised what a contortionist you would need to be to use some ill designed vibrators.

Eco Friendliness

Lastly, a few good companies of high end vibrators are jumping into the green scene and updating their manufacturing to be as green as possible. Many are also creating rechargeable vibrators eliminating the need for batteries. Next time you are in the market for a vibrator please consider all aspects when looking at a price tag.

By Inanna Thalia

Author, Wife, Mother, Entrepreneur. Life long student of sexuality and mind body connections.

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Most men just hurry through the process of sexual intercourse hence they might themselves achieve orgasms but will most probably leave their partners left unsatisfied. In this article let us discuss about some of the things you can do with a naked woman to stimulate her sexually and help her achieve multiple orgasms.

Concentrate On Her Back Side

Most men will think of butts when we talk of a woman’s back side but here we are literally talking about her back. There are a lot of nerve endings on the back which can be used to arouse her sexually. Start from the nape of her neck and slowly move down towards her spine. This position will also help you in perfectly holding her breasts and stimulate every sense in her body for a wild sexual encounter.

Use Both Your Hands

When having sex putting your hands at the right place can work wonders. For example try to cuddle her face with one hand and with the other hand grab her butt cheeks. This will convey to her two messages, firstly you find her so attractive you cannot wait to go ahead with intercourse and secondly she looks so beautiful you cannot put your eyes off her face. This is just what a woman wants to feel when she is standing in front of you fully naked.

Stimulate Her Inner Thighs

This is one area which is hardly explored by men. Inner thighs are highly sensitive to touch and when stimulated instantly send shivers down her spine and arouse her fully for a full sexual session.

Blindfold

Use a tie or something similar to blindfold her and lay her down on the bed. Then kiss on the parts she is not expecting like her ears, navel, inner thighs. This will keep her body guessing and arouse her to the extent of achieving multiple orgasms.

Kiss On Her Joints

It has been found that joints on elbow, knees, neck or waist are highly sensitive to touch and will give her instant pleasure and a wish to have some more sex.

Lubricate Her For Better Sex

Although if you follow the above steps a woman will most probably feel lubricated but if she has a problem of a dry vagina try using external lubricators like vigorelle arousal cream or any other similar herbal formulations. I recommend using herbal formulations as they tend to be free from any side effects and have a positive effect on the whole body.

These were some of the things you can try next time when you are having sex and surely you will make her experience wild orgasms she had never thought of in her life.

Alright so you have been going out with someone for a while now and want to take your next step and make a physical connection with the person and that’s kissing.

There are many people out there who are considered bad kissers but this can be changed with a few kissing tips for guys.

Here are some of my best Kissing tips for guys:

1. The first tip that I have for you guys out there is that you should not rush the first kiss you must know that this moment for her may be if not as much more important to her than you think it is.

Rushing the first kiss only shows that your are the aggressive type and even though that sounds like a good thing for a few people most girls do not appreciate this.

2. The next kissing tips for guys that we have for you is do not make the entire movement forward, go most of the way then wait for her lips to reach yours. This will ensure her that you are letting her kiss you and not forcing it on her.

3. The third of the kissing tips for guys that we have is that you must make sure that you time it right, unfortunately this puts pressure on you because if you kiss her too soon then she may feel like your going too fast, but if you don’t kiss her soon enough, she may start to feel like you may not be that interested in her and she will lose her desire for you.

4. Tip number four, make sure that you cut back on the tongue a little, as much fun as it seems to throw tongue in the kiss for girls it sometimes means more when you give them a small kiss on the lips and that’s all.

5. Our last kissing tips for guys we have for you is definitely a big one for guys that have been in relationships for a while choose one spot on their body to kiss every single day and make sure that you do not ever miss a day one day she will find this incredibly sweet that you do that.

A finale note, the kiss is not over simply because you came up for air. As you learn how to tongue kiss your partner properly go ahead and tell them “practice makes perfect.”

Internet dating is often entertaining. Nevertheless, don’t ignore safety and good judgment whenever you seek to get together with people on the web. At the least, consider careful attention within the following elements.

Tip #1 – Secure Your PC

Look after your own machines and gadgets prior to you heading in to the Internet. You must have some sort of firewall program together with anti-virus protection to make sure any kind of online communication you will have would not taint your computer. At any rate, you might want this particular set of products that can be downloaded free of charge to home computer users (i.e. not for enterprise use):

1. Free Firewall Download: ZoneAlarm

Most operating systems actually have a firewall system by default nevertheless it won’t hurt to incorporate an added safeguard right?

2. Free Anti-Virus Download: AVG Anti-Virus

Many consider AVG Anti-Virus weak for an anti-virus application but it’s better than nothing. If you’ve got the means to purchase fee based solutions just like Norton and McAfee, then go ahead. But be certain to at a minimum have the basic defense.

Tip #2 – Safeguard Your Self

Take good care of yourself too by choosing highly regarded dating sites. Find and choose a reliable internet dating service provider. Exactly how would you do this? It’s often advisable to start by inquiring around with buddies, neighbours, co-workers among others you may know whom actually have experienced online dating and be aware which websites these people highly recommend.

Moreover, examine “online dating services” as well as observe their particular Web addresses or web site hyperlinks, the actual service charges, laws and regulations, full contact related information of each and every additional beneficial info that tickles your fancy. Afterwhich, compare every web site, their offers, rates, and policies. You ought to solely try out those places that you are feeling 100 % comfortable with and simply steer clear of the others.

That is how you need to prepare yourself prior to deciding to engage in online dating service.

Once you have established to protect your self on the internet, You’re ready start meeting women and build connections.

Similar to typical real-world relationships, online relationships require caring for and be permitted to develop over time. Listed here are a number of fast nurturing suggestions:

Tip #1 – Make Some time and Take Some Time

Does your internet date contact you frequently? Do you reciprocate? Dismissing virtual meetings and engagements seriously isn’t ideal online ethics and will be considered mistreatment or neglect. Respect and trust is definitely the foundation of on-line relationships considering that you may not see your connections personally. If you and your contact cannot stay true to this, then online dating is probably not suitable for you.

Tip #2 – Communication Works Both Ways

Connection and relationship should be pleasant for the both of you. There would be instances in which you or even your contact might be too requiring to meet in person. This is normal. But both equally should consider each other’s decisions.

Tip #3 – Presume Things are all Contributed in Confidence

You and your relationships would undoubtedly swap personal information and documents. Information such as addresses, e-mail, and telephone numbers as well as files like pictures. Everything shared with you should be maintained with confidence, whether or not your contact fails to say so. Respect of personal privacy should be a priority.

Tip #4 – Interact Beyond the Website

A dating web site helps you discover those who are open to online dating, but the connection doesn’t have to be confined inside it. You may extend your relationship to Facebook, Twitter, and even off-line. If both you and your contacts are comfortable about it, feel free to meet in the real world. Be certain to do it in a public place for the very first time though. Like we realized above, you ought to protect your own self.